Thursday, January 29, 2004

Meetings
Listening: Daniel Bedingfield - If Your're Not The One

ok the last half-post was left stagnant for 2 days cos i was simply too tired to finish it. so i deleted it and shall start a new one here. went for the checkup on monday, i'll prolly be in the march intake cos i just checked the website and it says my enlistment's btw march and june. just waiting for the letter for confirmation now. life's been okay, though work's tiring, standing for hours on end with an hour's break in between. nvm, at least im employed instead of slacking arnd. haven been reading blogs alot, everynight after i come home im too tired to do anything cept shower and sleep. but read justin's blog last night. must really apologise for the dumb tag i left, didn't know why i wrote that too. guess i was too stressed and tired. forgive me pal. anyway this was wad i read there.


So what has life really offered u?

Four people you will meet in life

Life is the process of finding love; every person will need to find four people in their life.

First person is you,

Second person is the one you love most,

Third person is the one who love you most,

And the fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.

In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels.

Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most.

When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most.

Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person.

The one you love most doesn?t love you.

The one, who love you most, is never the one you love most.

And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who love you most.

He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

Which person are you in other people?s life?

No person will purposely have a change of heart.

At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you.

But when he doesn?t love you anymore, he really doesn?t love you anymore.

When he loves you, he can?t pretend that he doesn?t.

Same goes, when he loves you no more, there?s no way he can pretend he loves you.

When a person doesn?t love you and wants to leave you.

You must ask yourself if you still love him,

If you also don?t love him anymore, do not keep him just to save your pride.

If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it.

If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don?t love him,

And if you don?t love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive,

If you like the moon, you can?t just take it down and put it in your basin,

But the moonlight still shines upon you.

In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person.

Let him become a permanent memory in you life.

If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is.

Love him for his good points, and the bad,

You can?t wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him.

If he can?t change to become what you like him to be, you don?t love him anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him,

You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you.

Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criterias.

In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end.

Being away from each other is a type of test,

If the relationship isn?t strong, then you can only admit defeat.

Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love,

They love to ask each other to swear, to make promises.

Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?

Because they don?t trust each other, they don?t trust their lover.

These swear and promises are useless;

Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change!

We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will never dry,

Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?

Be careful when making promises; don?t make promises that you cannot keep.

Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually.

Remember, ?Swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!!?

In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another;

The one saying, doesn?t believe; the one listening, also doesn?t believe.

Which person have you found so far?

In the world so big, which person have you found?

And who has found you?


right. very good questions. who have i found? and who has already found me. myself? i dun tink i've found myself yet. i still do not know my true purpose in this life in this world. im like some lost soul sometimes, aimlessly searching for smth, smth that i may not even know wad. juz..... searching without a goal in mind. and next, the person who i love the most. have i found her? jing's quit msg says, "you don't really know if it's love until after the infatuation stops." true? maybe. im sick and tired of searching for this elusive person, someone that i love the most. i guess i rather wait for the person who loves me most to find me. has she appeared in my life and is just waiting for me to find her too? are u out there? haha i guess not. and the fourth, someone i'll spend the rest of my life with. im not yet 19, still young, so i guess i wun meet this person so soon. as they always say, dun marry someone u can live with, marry someone u cant live without. sigh. this seems so much a distant dream to me.